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Sunday, May 29, 2016
The Lasts (Again)
A little less than a year ago I posted
about “The Lasts.” It was during the time when excitement about
going was mingled with sadness about leaving (and a slight bit of
panic about what we were getting ourselves into). Now, we're almost
to the other side of it. We've survived the adventure, and there
were plenty of things I worried about that never did happen . . . no
scorpion or tarantula attacks, no emergency medical evacuations, no
kidnappings or muggings. But in other ways this year has been harder
than I ever imagined. I've learned a lot about my limitations (I'm
NOT cut out to be a classroom teacher, much less a
working-and-homeschooling mom!) I've struggled with discouragement,
feelings of failing my students and my own husband and children,
spiritual drought, lack of faith, and a host of practical day-to-day
struggles that come with living somewhere besides your home country.
I've been homesick, overwhelmed, and exhausted for much of our time
here. I've been longing for the day when I could get back home, back
to comfort and familiarity, back to a life where (at least sometimes)
I feel like I know what I'm doing. I've been counting down the
months, then the weeks; now I could count the days.
But now, here come the mixed emotions
again. Once again I'm facing “the lasts.” And as much as I've
wanted to go home, I know I'll be leaving a big piece of my heart
here, and I know it's going to hurt to say goodbye. This week will
be the last five days with my students at school. Some of those
little rascals have driven me crazy for the entire past nine months.
They've exasperated me and left me feeling completely incompetent.
They've brought me anxiety and tears, anger and frustration. And now
they're bringing me to tears again . . . but these tears are because
I love them and I don't want to leave them. I've managed not to
break down in class, but it's tough when some of my precious,
exasperating second graders write me notes about how they love me and
don't want me to leave, how I'm like another mom to them, how they're
going to cry for 100 days when I leave; some of them have already
cried in class just thinking about the goodbyes; some of my older
kids worry about who will teach them music next year and ask why the
teachers leave. I tell them I'll be back to visit, but I know I
won't be able to keep relationships with most of them, that I'll be
just a memory to them soon.
There are several grown-ups I'll really
miss too. They don't write the same little notes or tell me they're
going to cry for 100 days, but we've shared a lot this year and I
know there will be some empty places in our hearts when we go. It's
been a real blessing to get to know people who speak a different
language and have a different culture but who serve the same God.
It's been another blessing to have the camaraderie of the other
“missionaries” who do share our language and culture and have
shared this year with us as well.
In some ways, this move is easier
because we're returning to the familiar instead of entering the great
unknown. But I'm pretty sure these goodbyes are going to be harder.
This time I can't say, “It's only for a year.” This time, we're
going home to stay and will probably only see these friends every
year or two at best. We're finishing this chapter of our life story,
and the characters it's filled with won't be coming along into the
next chapter.
So these “lasts” are much more
final: The last time I'll enter the classroom and open the window,
hoping to find a good breeze that day. The last time I'll write the
date on the white board, remembering to do it day-month-year. The
last time I'll tell the class it's time to start and have to break up
the boys' ruler-fencing tournament. The last time I'll hear the
Honduran national anthem sung by 100 children's voices. The last
time I'll hear them call me “Mrs. Erin” in their beautiful
Spanish accent. The last time they'll try to get me to say “perro,”
so they can tease me about not being able to roll my R's. The last
time to say goodbye and walk out that door.
Parting really is such sweet sorrow. I
hate having to say goodbye, but I love the hugs and the sharing of
hearts that come with it. It's a painful yet comforting realization
that the kids will miss me and I'll miss them. So sad to leave, but
so sweet to think back on all the memories. Most of all, I love and
long for the day when there will be no more goodbyes, no more ended
relationships, no more tears, no more pain, no more lasts. Just love
and joy and celebration. Forever and ever.
Even so, come Lord Jesus.
Saturday, May 7, 2016
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Friday, March 25, 2016
Costa Rica Comfort
Well, we survived the Tica Bus ordeal.
Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger, right? (Or in my case,
just really ticked off.) Our 3 days in Costa Rica were very nice.
Almost enough to make up for the four days of torture. Almost.
After we got our rental car, we drove
out of San Jose and toward the Poas Volcano National Park. The
scenery we saw on the bus on the way to San Jose had been really
brown and dry...not at all like you imagine Costa Rica. But now it
all changed . . . beautiful green jungle, tall mountains, gorgeous
flowers. And clean. So clean! The roads were smooth and nice.
They certainly weren't built like our super highways. They flow with
the terrain, following the natural curves of the earth. This didn't
help with my carsickness, but it made some gorgeous (and terrifying)
scenery! There were times we were a few feet from plunging off a
cliff, views from thousands of feet up looking down at the clouds,
gorgeous farms and forests . . . it was breathtaking!
Our first destination was Poas Volcano.
It's a dormant volcano, and we got to go up above the crater and
look down at it. You can still see and smell and feel the sulphurous
fumes coming from it. The sign even said not to stay too long,
especially if you have lung problems. It's usually covered in
clouds, and we'd been praying that they'd clear off enough for us to
see it, and that's just what happened! We got a perfect
crystal-clear view of the crater. Very cool!
After that we drove the rest of the way
to our hotel near the Arenal Volcano. Definitely the coolest hotel
I've ever stayed at! It's built on the side of the mountain, with
over a dozen pools of various sizes and temperatures, filled by the
natural springs in the area. There are pools with slides, a pool
with a swim-up restaurant, hot tubs of still water, hot tubs with
jets, a water volcano. And it's all built to look natural, with rock
formations and jungle plants all around. So much fun! We spent most
of our time swimming and sliding. Jesse must have done the big slide
at least 100 times!
We had two outings as well. One day we
got to go horseback riding around the volcano. This volcano last
erupted in the 1960's I think, but lava was flowing until about 8
years ago! The top was constantly covered in clouds, but one day we
did get a glimpse of the top for less than 10 seconds. Unfortunately
we weren't quick enough with the camera, and then it was gone.
Anyway, the horseback riding was nothing like other rides we've done
before! For one, it was 3 hours long, and this was no “trail
ride.” We were actually free to direct the horses as we pleased,
rather than them just following the tail in front of them. It was
pretty cool! Slightly scary when we went up and down hills though!
The guide even took Rayanna away from Heath for one part because it
was that intense and he didn't want her to fall. She (very
uncharacteristically) ended up staying with the guide for the rest of
the ride because he let her hold the reigns more than Daddy did! The
kids did really well with the horses, and other than being very
saddle sore, we all had a good time. We even got to hear and see
some howler monkeys in the wild. Very cool!
The other outing was to the hanging
bridges. We took about a 2 ½ -hour hike through the jungle,
crossing several very scary hanging bridges! The only snakes we saw
were tiny but very dangerous ones. No boas or monkeys. We did get
to hear the howler monkeys again, which was cool.
The next day it was time to leave.
After a delicious breakfast buffet at the hotel, we made sure we had
PLENTY of food and water, US Dollars, and stamina, and set out in our
rental car for the 3-hour drive back to the bus station.
Unfortunately, the beautiful scenery on the curvy mountain roads has
its price. Jesse's carsickness got the better of him, and we didn't
pull over in time. Enough said. Great way to start the day.
Fortunately, we were able to get some Dramamine, so he and I both
took some, and the bus ride back was much less terrible than the way
down. Not fun, but certainly more tolerable.
So, 4 days of torture for 3 days of
beauty and relaxation. Seeing more of God's beautiful creation, and
having a few days of refreshment almost makes it worth the bus ride.
Almost. But if we ever have the urge to go to Costa Rica again,
we're flying!!
Tica Bus Torture
We just completed our final
visa-renewal trip, to Costa Rica this time. Oooh....aahh...Costa
Rica . . . such luxury, you're thinking. Well. . . yes and no.
Costa Rica is a beautiful country, and the place we stayed and the
things we did were wonderful! BUT....getting there by bus was pretty
much the worst travel experience ever!
We traveled for 13 hours the first day.
Three of those hours were spent standing in lines for immigration in
100 degree heat. And when I say “lines,” I mean that in the
loosest way possible. These “lines” can be cut into at any time,
and sometimes lead to nowhere when the person working that window
suddenly disappears with no explanation. When we drove to Belize the
border crossings were easy, and they never even looked through our
stuff. Not so going into Nicaragua. They rummaged through our
suitcases, opened the wrapping paper on Rayanna's bday present, and
other such invasive procedures. Of course, they need to be careful .
. . it's those darn missionary families and their kids always
smuggling in drugs and weapons disguised as birthday presents.
Despite the humiliation of having our personal items publicly
rummaged through, they never even found the apple that I accidentally
smuggled across the border. So that reinforces my opinion that the
entire thing is a waste of time. Unless someone packed an entire
suitcase full of drugs they're not going to find anything.
Anyway, probably a total of 10 hours
were spent at the various border crossings: 2 countries each way, an
entire bus load of people having to be cleared before we can go on.
One station had food and drink to buy; the others did not. And a
bathroom for your children while you're waiting? Well, there MIGHT
be one, and if there is, you may or may not have to pay to use it.
Note to self: As scary as it is to drive through Central America by
yourself, it's a heck of a lot easier and less frustrating than going
with a bus.
So here's how our first day went: spend $120
for a two-hour taxi-van ride from our house to the bus station. An
hour later, board the Tica Bus. The bus itself was relatively
comfortable. However, either the AC didn't work that well or the
driver had it turned too low, so it was a bit stuffy. Add to that
the boat-like suspension, the view obstructed by seats and window
frames and curtains, and the psychotic driving methods on insanely
curvy roads, and you get . . . nausea, headache, and all-around
feeling horrible. I occasionally get car sick, but never to this
extent. While I didn't actually vomit, I pretty much felt like I
might for the entire 2 days.
So I should be grateful for the 3-hour
immigration break, right? Not so much. First, someone from Tica
came down the aisles collecting $5 for the crossing. We did know
there was a fee, but nothing official was announced...just this Tica
guy asking everyone for money. Um, ok, I guess. What else can we
do? Then we had the privilege of exchanging the carsickness for
standing in an oven waiting for our passports to be stamped. Here
the time was passed by the fun pastime of convincing people that
“Yes, these really are our daughters.” A lady who was selling
nuts really had trouble wrapping her mind around this. “They don't
look like you. Are they your daughters?” “Yes, they're adopted
from China.” Stare. Play with their hair. Look confused. “Are
they your nieces?” “No, our daughters. They're adopted.”
Stare. Look confused. Comment to someone else. Now the someone
else starts asking questions. We explain again. Even used google
translate to make sure we had the right word for “adopted.” More
confused looks of disbelief. “Are you their mom?” I know our
Spanish isn't that great, but really people . . . surely you've at
least heard of adoption? And if the questioning, staring, and
playing with their hair isn't rude enough, shouldn't you at least
move on with your life at some point and leave us alone? I'm usually
very gracious with adoption questions . . . I do want people to
understand and see adoption as a good thing, and I want to be a kind
representative of adoptive families, of Christians, of Americans,
etc. But when you start making my girls uncomfortable I get ticked.
Fortunately, the nut-lady (no pun intended) moved on before I got
really irritated. Back to waiting “in line,” people cutting in,
officials leaving their desk and not returning, etc, etc. And don't
forget it's still 100 degrees.
We finally got our passports stamped
for exiting Honduras. We got back on the bus. Then the Tica Bus guy
collected $14 per person and everyone's passport. Um, rule one of
international travel: Never give your passport to someone you don't
know. But again, what to do? We handed them over and hoped he was
trustworthy. Turns out he took them all and got them stamped into
Nicaragua and gave them back...no problems. By the fourth time this
happened, we were “old pros” and even got to offer comfort to an
American guy who was really worried that he'd just lost his passport
forever. (You know, Tica, just a little warning ahead of time that
this was standard procedure would have saved several people a lot of
stress.) Even so, the receipts that were in our passport when he
gave them back showed $4 (not 5), and $10 (not 14), so I'm fairly
certain we were ripped off by the Tica company.
Back on the bus. Oh, did I mention
that Tica said the buses had wifi? Well, that's what they said. But
it didn't work. Not that I expect wifi all the time...just honesty.
They also had plugs for charging phones, but those only worked on one
of the four bus rides. And the reading lights above each seat . . .
those were turned off so you only had light when the driver decided
to turn on the lights...which was usually just after you finally fell
asleep and he turned on the lights and made an obnoxiously loud
announcement for the next stop.
So we continued on with this delightful
day. We'd been on the bus since 10 am, a 3-hour stop for immigration
(with no chance to buy food or water there; well, other than from the
nut lady), and we still had several hours to drive . . . so surely
there would be a stop for food and water happening soon. But guess
what . . . no such stop happened. You would think that on the
website . . . or during the course of several emails I had in the
purchasing process . . . or in information given out with the tickets
. . . SOMEWHERE someone would think to mention that there wouldn't be
a chance to buy anything. That you needed to bring EVERYTHING you
might need. But no one had told us this, and so our meals for the
day were chips and cookies and crackers that we had brought in our
“snack” bag.
At 7 or 8 pm, we finally arrived at the
Tica Terminal and Hotel in Managua, Nicaragua. Ah, finally we can
get some real food, more water, and a good night's sleep. We got off
the bus (and, still with no help or direction) found out from a taxi
driver where the Tica Hotel was. It's right there on the same
property, but nothing is labeled and no Tica staff helped us. In the
eerie green lighting of the hotel lobby, we were told that they
couldn't find our reservation. (We had purchased this reservation
two months ago, as part of our bus ticket purchase.) So the man at
the desk kept our passports (again with the taking of the passports!)
We were shown to a room, and thank-the-Lord it had air condition
because by this point I might have really lost it. However, what did
it not have? A place to buy food or water! In a country where the
tap water is not drinkable, a hotel has nowhere to buy water? Are
you kidding me!?! Last time I checked, water was an essential
ingredient of life. So, the kids and I went to the hotel room with
our half-liter of remaining water. Heath ventured out in this dark,
foreign city (and bus stations are never in the good section of
town), to find food. He found a little restaurant that only took
Nicaraguan currency or US dollars. Having come from Honduras, we had
Honduran currency (useless), credit cards (useless), and 10 USD. So
Heath bought some chicken and rice dinners, and a bottle of water,
and managed to make it back to the room without being mugged. It
turned out to be plenty of food, and enough water for the night. In
the morning, we planned to exchange money and get water from the
snack shop. But as it turns out, the hotel does not exchange money,
and there were no ATMs or banks near enough to get to before the bus
left. When Heath pointed out to the Tica personnel that this meant
no water for our family all day he received a half-hearted “sorry”
and a shrug. Fortunately, we had $1 left and bought one more bottle
of water. To last 5 people the entire day.
The second day of the journey was
pretty much a repeat of the first, except that—thank the Lord—there
was food and water available at the immigration stop. Otherwise I'm
not sure what we would have done. But still, no information, no
help, no apologies, no show of any concern from Tica staff. One new
item was that they showed a movie on the bus. Oh good, free
entertainment! Well, if you consider watching people get killed in
violent sword fights and women having some kind of séance to be
entertaining then yes. If, however, you are not into Satan and gory
violence, oh....AND YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH YOU...then you might find
this “entertainment” just slightly inappropriate. Especially
when this isn't like an airplane where you plug in your headphones if
you want to listen; no, the sound was played through the entire bus
whether you wanted to hear it or not. It was enough to give me a
headache make me sick even if I hadn't felt carsick and had a
pounding headache already. But since no one showed any desire to be
helpful, and we were too exhausted to try to argue in Spanish, we
didn't try to do anything about it. The girls were watching their
own movie on our computer, so we let it go. When that movie ended, a
child-friendly one started. Ten minutes later they turned it off.
Whatever.
Finally, finally, FINALLY we make it to
the Costa Rica terminal. The horrors are over, and our vacation can
begin! Not so fast. Did I mention we were 3 hours later in arriving
than what we had been told? And that no updates were given, no
apologies made? And that there was no way to contact anyone from the
bus to let them know? Well, this presents a problem when you have a
rental car company meeting you at the bus terminal and no way to let
them know you will be THREE HOURS late. Needless to say, they
weren't there when we arrived. Our phones don't work in Costa Rica,
so surely the Tica staff would help us out, right?! Well, they
pointed to a phone on the wall that makes collect calls. We tried
calling the car rental place, but got no answer. It was a Sunday
night, and their office was probably closed anyway. We were supposed
to be driving to a nice B&B that evening, but now we had no way
to get there. So what to do, but hand over more of our money to Tica
and stay at their hotel. Only this time the biggest room they had
was for four people. That was a fun night.
After a few major temper tantrums (from
me, not the kids), we all went to sleep, despite the bright light
outside the window shining through the white sheet hung as a curtain.
I woke up thinking it was morning, but no....it was just the giant
electric sun outside our room. In the morning, we still had no
working phones to call the rental car company, but thanks to the
Navmii app Heath was able to find their office and walk there.
(Twice. The first time he had to come back and get his passport.)
But finally, we had our rental car and were on our way. Let the
torture end and the vacation begin!
Stay tuned to read about the happy part
of our vacation. . .
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